Entitled Much?😒Can’t Stand Them!

There comes a time in the life of a person where they have to choose themselves over everyone except God which I can boldly say no one is…and you know what’s funny?

The fact that a whole lot of people who are too used to the advantages that come with your selflessness, see your decision to do what works for you instead of what works for them as selfish!

Hilarious, I know right???…One thing we must understand as human beings is the fact that misery loves company, and the greatest form of misery life could ever create,comes in the form of people we surround ourselves with.

Everyone loves free stuff…Feeding off someone.. And most importantly people always want to feel some sort of entitlement as far as your life is concerned, and this dear friend is the number one Misery you must avoid like a plague.

I really feel like emphasizing on the feeling of entitlement because a whole lot of people do it without the slightest idea. When someone notices you don’t want to do things their own way, when they see you’re creating your own path in life without their permission or without involving them in the process..They instantly go Haywire!

Like that feeling of entitlement comes surging in like some electricity…And before you realize it, you find yourself apologizing for making plans for yourself…How terribly annoying.

I think everyone basically needs to take a chill pill. We all have our lives ahead of us, if someone doesn’t involve you in their plans respect that decision.

I mean you’ve got a life as well…so instead of going ballistic or trying to hang unto some selfish sense of entitlement, how about making your own life plans and minding your business?

I mean what could actually go wrong if we learnt to do right by ourselves instead of poking our noses and looking for some way to make ourselves relevant in the lives of people who are just trying to LIVE!

Everyone deserves to know who they are, and the purpose for which they exist…And more importantly this is a journey we all must embark on, on our own.

Now this is going to require you giving up a lot of things…because now you’ll have to be living life for yourself and not for the likes of whoever. You’ll have to make certain decisions to create your own happiness, and not the happiness of people.

Because we are solely responsible for the creation of our own happiness and not the happiness of others, ofcourse through some actions we can bring happiness to people, but It’s not solely our responsible,and no one has the right to make you feel Terrible because they aren’t in a good place and you are.

That’s on them. If someone wants to be truly happy? They need to make it happen for themselves, rather than depend on you for that..Everything you do…Every decision you make…do it for you, and for the sake of your peace of mind, and involve God in every step of the way.

Because at the end of the day, You come first. Anyone that’s not comfortable with that? Should geddifok(Bounce). Besides what’s the purpose of a person in your life if they cannot Support your decisions to be the best version of yourself, and your decision to choose your happiness first?

Let’s not forget we all have a life of our own…it’s high time we start minding that life and leave people to figure theirs out in peace.

And always Remember: Except you’re God, or A Spouse Nobody owes you Shit, or information concerning their Lives. DROP THE ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY IN THE BIN.♥️